I want to share this for all my mammas out there... This is a friend of mine and it is NOT how women should be treating each other and talking to each other. As women, we need to put an end to confidence shaming and putting other women down. We do enough negative self talk on our own, we don't need others who don't even know us doing the same.
"Last night I posted about my “Mom Bod” on my LIKE page and I got some positive comments from some pretty fabulous and healthy mommas but I also got a message from I person that doesn’t know me, doesn’t know who I am or what I do. She asked if I was trying to get attention…it stung at first because if you read my message it was not about that at all. However then I thought (with help from the hubby) YES I am trying to get attention, I am trying to let other moms know you are not alone with your thoughts and feelings about your body, you are not alone with the struggle of trying to live in a body that has been stretched to its capacity and back again and you are not alone when you feel alone.
I posted that picture and message to let others know the body that I dislike a lot of days has carried 4 babies, it has given me the greatest gifts I have ever gotten and I need to love it. I will not lie there are days I HATE my body, I have stretch marks up to my belly button, my thighs have no inner gap and I would love to get rid of my baby pouch! Then there are days that I look at myself and I say “wow” I look good, I am proud of my body I get up every day at 3 am to get this body, I eat a clean diet and I work on my mental health to achieve this!
So thank you to the Haters out there, thank you for your negative remarks, thank you for your eye rolls and thank you for your laughs because it makes me work harder, it makes me want to reach out to more mommas and it makes me appreciate all that I have accomplished in my life.
If you are a mom out there that is struggling there is help out there if not from me from many others, reach out and get your life back…learn to love you again because you deserve it!"
I posted that picture and message to let others know the body that I dislike a lot of days has carried 4 babies, it has given me the greatest gifts I have ever gotten and I need to love it. I will not lie there are days I HATE my body, I have stretch marks up to my belly button, my thighs have no inner gap and I would love to get rid of my baby pouch! Then there are days that I look at myself and I say “wow” I look good, I am proud of my body I get up every day at 3 am to get this body, I eat a clean diet and I work on my mental health to achieve this!
So thank you to the Haters out there, thank you for your negative remarks, thank you for your eye rolls and thank you for your laughs because it makes me work harder, it makes me want to reach out to more mommas and it makes me appreciate all that I have accomplished in my life.
If you are a mom out there that is struggling there is help out there if not from me from many others, reach out and get your life back…learn to love you again because you deserve it!"
Today I challenge you to get out there and give genuine compliments to as many women as you can!
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